Did Yinz Know there are only Five Things You Can Do With Money

When it comes to money, most people think in terms of income, expenses, and maybe savings. But the truth is, there are only five things you can do with your money—and how you prioritize them can completely change your financial future.

At Beratung Advisors, we call this framework Live, Give, Owe, and Grow. It’s simple, and memorable which means its actionable!

Five or Four?

You might have noticed Live, Give, Owe and Grow is only four categories, but I said there are five. That is because you owe taxes or owe others, either way, it’s money leaving your pocket. By grouping them together, it’s easier to remember: Live, Give, Owe, Grow. 

The Framework

Knowing that we can owe in two different ways lets break the four (or technically five) ways you can use your money.

1. Live – spend on your daily lifestyle and needs
2. Give – contribute to charities, church, or causes you believe in
3. Owe – pay debt or taxes
4. Grow – save and invest for your future

Simple, right? The real challenge isn’t remembering the categories—it’s getting them in the right order.

The Typical Backward Order

Here’s how most people naturally approach their money:

1. Live First – As soon as a paycheck comes in, lifestyle expenses take the top spot. Bigger houses, new cars, lunches out, Amazon orders, and daily spending fall into this category.
2. Owe Second – When lifestyle spending gets too big, debt usually follows. Credit cards, loans, or unexpected tax bills pile up.
3. Grow and Give Last – With little left over, saving and giving often become an afterthought. Retirement, investing, or generosity toward others gets pushed down the priority list.

Sound familiar? You’re not alone. This is the pattern many families fall into—not because they don’t care about saving or giving, but because they never put intention behind the order. I would give more if I just…. I would save more if….

Flipping the Script: The Intentional Order

Now imagine flipping that order on its head. Here’s what many of our clients want their financial priorities to look like:

1. Give First – “I want to give from the first of my harvest.” Whether it’s tithing, supporting a cause, or helping others, generosity feels best when it’s intentional, not leftover.
2. Grow Second – Saving and investing early provides for your future. It seeks to ensure that long-term goals like retirement, college funds, or building wealth actually happen. This creates confidence!
3. Live Third – Once giving and growing are set aside, lifestyle expenses take their rightful place. This doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy life—it just means you’re living within a framework that’s aligned with your goals.
4. Owe Last – Taxes are unavoidable, but when they’re minimized and handled after you’ve prioritized giving, growing, and living, they don’t control your financial life. Taxes are a sign of God’s provision, and when paid last, we can be joyful for the provisions. Debt should always be avoided as the debtor is always the slave to the lender, but when you find it necessary to pursue your goals, such as a mortgage to buy a house, it should be in an amount that allows it to be the lowest priority. 

This order—Give, Grow, Live, Owe—creates financial stability, generosity, and confidence.

Why Most People Get It Wrong

So why do so many people default to the backward order? It usually comes down to one word: intention.

When money comes in, it’s easy to spend without a plan. A new paycheck arrives, bills are due, and the rest goes wherever it feels most urgent. Without a guiding framework, the cycle repeats itself—and before long, there’s nothing left to grow or give.

But when you approach money with intention—deciding ahead of time how much you’ll give, how much you’ll save, how much you’ll spend, and how much you’ll set aside for obligations—you take control of the process instead of letting the process control you.

Why Live, Give, Owe, and Grow Matters

Financial planning isn’t about complicated spreadsheets or formulas—it’s about clarity. Knowing where your money is going, and in what order, makes the difference between feeling constantly behind and actually being in control.

At Beratung Advisors, this is where we start. We sit down with couples, individuals, and families to:

• Identify how much you currently live, give, owe, and grow.
• See whether your order aligns with your values.
• Create a personalized plan that shifts your money into the order you want it to be.

It’s not about changing your life overnight—it’s about making steady, intentional progress toward a plan that feels both generous and sustainable

The Takeaway

Every dollar you earn has a destination. The question is whether it’s moving there by accident—or by design.

When you get the order right—Give, Grow, Live, Owe—you not only build financial confidence, but also create a life filled with generosity, balance, and freedom.

At Beratung Advisors, we’d love to help you find your ideal balance. Let’s talk about how you live, how you give, how you owe, and how you grow—and build a plan that works for your future.

Contact us today to start your financial planning journey.